What Makes a Happier Christian

I’ve always loved the statement in Science and Health that says, “Jesus beheld in Science the perfect man, who appeared to him where sinning mortal man appears to mortals.” It helped me recently to resolve an argument between two of my business associates.

One associate came to me seeking my support against the other. He complained about how he was being mistreated and disrespected by the other fellow. But he forgot one important thing, that he, himself, had treated me in the same discourteous manner — in fact worse than he was being treated! I reminded him of his behavior and how I have since forgiven him and have shown him nothing but love and kindness. He was surprised that I confronted him, but agreed that I have forgiven him.

I reminded him that the Bible says to love your enemies and to bless them that curse you. I explained to him that I had recognized the truth about him, and this enabled me to forgive him. I urged him to go and do likewise, and to respond to hate with love and kindness. At first it was difficult for him, but when he finally did, the situation was resolved and a healthy environment was restored. He’s now a blessing to everyone around him.

I have found that if you look for fault in anyone, you will find it; but if you look closer, you will find there is strength beneath the surface and the capacity for great good. This frees us from carrying such a heavy burden around, which is an unhealthy thing to do to one’s self. The heaviness would drag you down.

Never let this error take advantage of you. It’s malicious and harmful. We must know now and always that every child of God is capable of doing the utmost good. As we know this fact, it opens the door of true being where love and strength reside. And the starting point is to forgive and forget, and if you have offended anyone, there is nothing wrong with letting that person know you are sorry. It is the right thing to do, and it’s unchristian if you fail to do so. Many would argue that it’s weakness to forgive, but to forgive is real strength, and to be sorry for any wrong doing is true courage. There is no better love than this, and it’s what makes a happy, healthy, and strong Christian.